How to Incorporate Toys and Lube Into Your Sex Life

Thanks to our country’s subpar sex education and general tendency toward puritanism, our relationship with sex and our ability to talk about it is, you know, fucked. Despite how much talking …

Can Sex Toys Improve My Sex Life?

Your sex life is starting to become less taboo, and sex, intimacy, and toys are now things discussed more often with friends – well, close friends at least. Gone are the …

The 3 Rules of Using Sex Toys in a Relationship

Everyone’s first sex toy was usually tucked away far, far, far into the back of a bedside drawer or sandwiched somewhere under the mattress. That’s definitely true for all of us …

Never Had An Orgasm? Here’s What You Need To Know

If you’ve never had an orgasm to the best of your memory or knowledge, you’re not alone. Statistics on this vary, but it’s generally acknowledged that between 10 to 20% of …

The Orgasm Deficit

Why have so many women never had an orgasm? Brittany* will never forget her spring break trip during junior year in college. She was headed to St. Augustine, Florida, with a …

Here’s Exactly How Much Sex You Should Have, According To Your Age

According to a new study from the Kinsey Institute, age definitely influences how much sex you have, but that’s not all that surprising, is it? I mean, you can’t expect an …

This Is What A 25-Year-Old Virgin Looks Like

I’m 25 years old, and life isn’t too shabby. I have a good job in digital marketing, a good group of friends, I’ve travelled to some amazing places, volunteered, and climbed …

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